In sex, everything is acceptable that does not harm the partners themselves and others. Nevertheless, some things should still alert you if you don’t know a man well and hear persistent proposals from him. Psychologist Mikhail Ageev told us which male fantasies you shouldn’t immediately rush to realize.
Violence
If your partner expresses a desire to use violence or aggression in sex, this could be a sign of his negative views of women and lack of respect for your boundaries and feelings. What to do if a man insists? Mikhail: “Discuss this topic with him and clarify what is unacceptable for you.”
Group sex
Many men can dream about sex with several women at the same time. However, if your partner insists on such an experience, it may indicate his lack of satisfaction in his relationship with you and his inability to be faithful, says the expert.
Submission and humiliation
Some men may experience sexual satisfaction from submitting and humiliating their partner. Psychologist: “If your partner demands this from you in sex, this may be a sign of his problems with self-esteem and a desire to control you.” Do you need this kind of experience? It's up to you to decide.
Fetish Fetish fantasies can be part of the sex life of many couples. However, if your partner has a fetish that makes you uncomfortable or confused, it is important to discuss it and find a compromise solution that is acceptable to both. Never go against your will. Sex should be comfortable for both partners. Sex with strangers Some men may fantasize about sex with strangers, which can make you feel jealous and inferiority. Michael: “If your partner expresses such fantasies, discuss them and find out what exactly is attractive to him and how you can resolve this issue without bringing an additional person into bed.”
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