Psychology

Sex on Vacation: Why It's Good for Improving Relationships and What to Bring with You

Are you tired of sex in the marital bedroom with your familiar and beloved husband for a thousand years? Go on vacation – no, not to go all out with a sultry mulatto on the edge of the surf. And to rediscover passion and tenderness with your partner.

Benefits of a Romantic Sex Vacation

“The point of a sex holiday is to indulge in a variety of sexual activities with your partner. Take the chance to feel like a teenager again during this sexual escapade. Experiment with poses, costumes, toys, body parts, locations, and anything else you can think of. You will enjoy this refreshing twist in your usual sex life,” suggests sexologist Olga Vasilenko. What is worth remembering when you plan your secret summer escape to yourself?

Avoid busy places

You should not leave noisy Moscow to spend your sexy vacation in St. Petersburg. “A beach or mountain vacation is an ideal solution for a couple, because in them you both can focus on each other and not be distracted by tedious shopping and the obligatory visits to the sights that accompany a vacation in a big city,” explains Olga.

Make sure there are no children there

“Stay away from the huge number of chain hotels and instead choose cozy boutique hotels with secluded spots. There are many beautiful resorts scattered around the world, in which huge hotel areas are designed for guests without children,” says Olga.

Sex on Vacation: Why It's Good for Improving Relationships and What to Bring with You

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Even if you have to pay a little more, still choose this option. You don’t want your sexy beach vacation to be ruined by babies dancing 24/7 to songs from “Pippi Pig.” And you certainly didn’t leave your offspring with grandmas and nannies to listen to children’s squeals and squeals (no, no, we love children. But sometimes you need a break from them, too).

Let the resort know in advance

For a romantic touch, call the resort as soon as you book and let them know you’re on a second honeymoon. Or send them an email.

“Most high-end establishments will romanticize the trip, including rose petals in the bath, a bottle of welcome champagne and other sweet details that are sure to push your sexy getaway in the right direction,” says Olga. Now that you've chosen the perfect location, it's time to get to the fun part.

Don't rush

There's a lot more to a vacation than just sex. You can spend the day sightseeing or spend hours walking around the city just chatting about everything. By the way, when was the last time you did this?

“Be realistic about how you're feeling and don't rush into sex on vacation if you're tired from the day's adventures. If you are tired and immediately start sex, this can reduce the quality of sensations,” warns Olga.

Avoid sunburn

Nothing ruins sex like that on the beach under the huge stars, like red burnt skin covered in painful blisters. Not to mention, your acrobatics in bed may be interrupted if you or your partner can't even touch each other! Moral: Use sunscreen.

Turn off electronics

Nothing ruins the mood more than worrying about work messages or texts from your parents. So turn off your phone, laptop, work phone, or any other electronics you have. Better yet, put them in another room. Don't let your devices interrupt your time with your partner.

Bring toys with you

Just because you leave your responsibilities, problems and headaches at home doesn't mean you should leave your toys there too! Plus, if you know that you or your partner use vibrators to achieve climax, why leave such a treasure at home? “Just make sure you bring toys that can pass airport security! This is especially true for Muslim countries,” warns Olga.

Sex on Vacation: Why It's Good for Improving Relationships and What to Bring with You

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Re-acquaint yourself with your body

“Our busy lives often cause us to put our physical and emotional health low on our list of priorities. But when the stress is left behind, vacation is the best way to regain harmony with your soul and body. Masturbation has so many health benefits that you might have missed while your mind was busy with kids, home life and work,” Olga explains.

So before you jump into sex on vacation with your partner, take a moment to attention to yourself. Refamiliarize yourself with your body, your erogenous zones, and learn where and how you like to be touched.

Don't forget to lubricate

Lubricant can be stored in your nightstand at home, but not in a hotel! Therefore, do not forget to take care of lubricant in advance – simply because it may be difficult to buy it in the place of your arrival, for example.