At the age of 20, girls think that after 40 it’s time to put on a headscarf and read instructions on growing organic cucumbers for their grandchildren, and not study the Kama Sutra and certainly not dream of a young hot lover. And then suddenly hop! – and here they are, those same 40. Or more. And it becomes clear that you want not only cucumbers, but also other interesting and wonderful things. And in general, become a milf.
Who is a milf?
It's an acronym for “Mother I'd Like to F**k.” We are, of course, not talking about our birth mother, but about a luxurious woman who is 20 years older than the man. That’s all. Simple and clear. “In short, this is such a mature woman who oozes sexuality, she has that very seductiveness that all the surrounding men aged 18 to 68 fall for. She knows about it and knows how to use it to get pleasure,” says sexologist Elena Tikhonova. What makes a woman a MILF and how to become one? We list the main signs so that you can easily understand what you need to do to become one. Or almost like this.
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She is enjoying her age
The MILF doesn't need to try to appear younger, she really feels very comfortable in her body and at her age. And this, oddly enough, usually makes you look great. By the way, in this case, this does not necessarily mean having the fit figure of a model and the muscles of a yoga trainer.
“Some milfs have very corpulent physiques and never stop looking for lovers. It's really not about weight, and not about how old you are – but about how you feel, whether you love yourself. Those around you quickly read your ability to receive and give pleasure – including sex. This is what attracts men like a magnet,” says Elena.
Looks incredibly sexy
And this, of course, also does not mean that the milf wears exclusively a lace neckline and 12 cm high heels (that is, this is also possible, but not at all necessary). But you probably won’t find a grandmother’s scarf with felt boots in her wardrobe, and if suddenly they are still there, then in them she looks like a sex goddess.
“Look, what does sexuality mean to you personally? We're all different, and that's great – a simple floral chintz shift dress can be very sexy if you know how to wear it. Go to a stylist, choose a hairstyle and hair color that will make you brighter or more romantic, more tender or aggressive – the main thing is to understand what exactly you want from life in general and from sex in particular,” says Elena.
Sexually experienced woman
When a MILF has sex, she doesn't blush or giggle with excitement if a man whispers dirty words in her ear. She confidently makes movements and excites him, and the man in return does everything possible to please her.
“You have no real experience with sex? So get it! Explore your body, read books about sex, buy some toys, watch adult films. Allow yourself to be sexy, want sex – and know exactly what, how and in what positions your body wants. By the way, with age, libido only increases, the children are already grown up – why not allow yourself to plunge into the abyss of great sex?” asks Elena.
Photo: Social networks Milf doesn't play games She is above all this nonsense like “What is a decent date to have sex on?” or “How many days after the meeting is it permissible to call him first?” She knows what she wants and knows how to make demands and have realistic expectations from a relationship or romance. Why play games and make a fuss where everything is clear at a glance and at the first languid glance? “Have you always dreamed of having violent sex with a stranger, when even the person’s name is unknown? Sometimes it brings incredible pleasure. Just do it at least once and forget about ethics, morality and other things that usually fill our heads. You should always remember about a condom and basic rules of personal safety, but sometimes you can turn off the rest,” says Elena.