You have a wonderful family, you still love each other: but the trouble is, your spouse is increasingly perceived as something like a brother. Therefore, you want to have sex with him less and less, and this worries and saddens you. Don't panic! There are great ways to bring the passion back into your relationship. It's pretty simple.
Try Bondage
Bondage is one of the most exciting sex ideas that will give you and your partner an instant boost. You will have to yield to your spouse if you are handcuffed or have your hands tied with a silk scarf.
“However, be sure to get your partner's consent and check his comfort at every stage. In addition, define a safe word that each of you can use to stop the process at any time,” explains sexologist Olga Vasilenko.
Having sex in a car
The risk factor, wide open windows (or close them tightly so they erotically fog up) and limited choice of poses make this idea very attractive. “This is sex that everyone should try at least once in their life. Just make sure that you are well prepared and parked in a safe place,” Olga reminds.
Having phone sex
Not yet ready for the real thing phone sex? “Start with sexting. It’s much easier to initiate, and your frank words during correspondence will warm you up for real intimacy,” Olga suggests.
Unsplash Use a sex toy to please yourself Such playful actions in sex require confidence and trust in your partner, but they will drive you crazy if you find the courage to “come out of the closet.” “You will enjoy the desire in the eyes of your spouse when you please yourself, and the man will be excited watching you please yourself,” Olga assures. Use a sex toy on your partner Surprise your spouse with a fun or interesting experiment with a dildo or womanizer. This is a naughty sex idea that may inspire you to experiment more in the future and take your sex life to new heights. Watch porn with your partner Looking for new sex ideas? Watching an adult film with them may have some issues (remember, this is a production with well-trained actors), but they can create an atmosphere so that you both enjoy it. Have fun sex in the rain Here is one of the new sex ideas. If you have a private place where you can get wet without being caught, then you're in luck! The feeling of rain and sex – well, it's definitely very sensual and romantic. Make a sex video This idea should probably be reserved for partners only , whom you deeply trust. But if you decide, you will definitely enjoy both feeling like porn heroes and then watching what happens. By the way, this will be a great reason to go for a second round! Unsplash Go to a strip club One of the sex ideas that can take you out of your comfort zone and get you where you need to be mood is like going to a strip club. Agree in advance at what point you will sneak away – or maybe have rough sex right in the toilet of the establishment? Spend the evening naked together “One of interesting ways to get hot is to spend time with your partner without clothes. You can be close to each other and do normal activities, but completely naked. It can be sexually stimulating and seductive for both of you,” says Olga. Just make sure that there are no children or mother-in-law at home, and that dogs and hamsters are fed and walked.
